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What to Avoid Before IVF, and What You Can Keep

The list worth avoiding is short. Most of what you gave up isn’t on it.

An evidence-based list of the few changes linked to egg and sperm biology before a cycle, for her and for him, plus an honest label on everything else: Keep it, Your call or Avoid.

  • The 6 things genuinely worth avoiding, each tied to published guidance
  • His own pages: the 74-day sperm window and the question most couples never ask
  • What you can keep, and what the extra restriction quietly costs you

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Dr. Lejla Fazlicic
Written by Dr. Lejla Fazlicic, D.Ac., L.Ac.
Licensed in Illinois since 2011 · Fifteen years with couples before IVF
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Keep it, your call, or avoid?

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KEEP ITYOUR CALLAVOID

These are 4 of the 11. The other 7 labels, and the reasoning behind each, are in the guide.

That’s 4 of 11. The other 7 labels for her and for him, and the reasoning behind each, are in the guide.

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The short list

Six changes worth making, and why the biology agrees

Each item has a plausible biological route to egg or sperm development and published evidence behind it. The list is short on purpose. Two are shown in full here; the reasoning for the other four is in the guide.

1

Smoking

Both of youStrong evidence
The biology

Tobacco use is associated with impaired fertility and poorer IVF outcomes. ASRM reports smokers need nearly twice as many IVF attempts to conceive, and that much of the reduced fertility may reverse within a year of stopping.

ASRM committee opinion, 2024 →
2

Heat at the scrotum

HimConsistent, reversible
The biology

Sperm are made best slightly below body temperature. In one study, three months of regular sauna sessions lowered sperm count, motility and DNA packaging, and all of it recovered six months after stopping. Hot tub, sauna, laptop on the lap, very long drives.

Human Reproduction, 2013 →
3

Testosterone and anabolic “boosters”

HimGuideline
4

Hard training while eating less

HerGuideline
5

Heavy, regular drinking

Both of youAssociations
6

Anything your clinic told you to stop

Both of youTheir call
The honest part: these are biological links and associations, not guarantees. IVF outcomes depend on many factors, and no single habit causes or prevents a result. The guide will never tell you that your choices caused a failed cycle.
Get the printable list for both of you → Includes the full “Keep it” and “Your call” reasoning.
Why the timing matters

Two windows, open at the same time

Sperm take about 74 days to develop. Eggs go through roughly three months of final growth before retrieval. The changes you make now are present while the cells used in your cycle are forming.

Her · about 90 daysfinal egg growth
His · about 74 dayssperm development
Retrievalyour cycle

Two windows, both partners. Not a guarantee, just the honest reason to start this week rather than “after.”

Inside the guide

Six pages. Five minutes. For both of you.

Read it together at the kitchen table. Every item gets a label, what the evidence says, and what giving it up cost you.

Guide page: Before you start
Page 2How to read the labels
Guide page: What she gave up
Page 3What she gave up
Guide page: What he gave up
Page 4What he gave up
Guide page: The ones nobody puts on a list
Page 5The ones nobody puts on a list
Guide page: The short list
Page 6What to avoid: the short list
Dr. Lejla Fazlicic

Dr. Lejla Fazlicic, D.Ac., L.Ac.

Doctor of Acupuncture · Creator of Cycle Decoded

  • Licensed in Illinois since 2011
  • Fifteen years with couples before IVF
  • Works alongside your clinic, never instead of it

“Nothing in this guide will tell you that your habits caused a failed cycle. That is a promise.”

I’m not telling you to start anything. I’m telling you what the evidence supports, so you can decide. The decision stays yours.
Your clinic comes first. If they asked you to stop something, ask them why before you ask me.
No guarantees. Your clinic gave you a percentage, not a promise. I’ll be just as honest.

Cycle Decoded doesn’t publish testimonials or client stories. Read the guide and judge it on the evidence.

Questions

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Is it really free?
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We haven’t started IVF yet. Is this for us?
Yes. It works best before a first cycle, when the 74- and 90-day windows are still ahead of you. It’s also written for couples preparing again after a cycle that didn’t work.
Is it for him too?
It has his own pages. He contributes half of the embryo’s DNA, and several of the best-evidenced changes on the short list are his, including heat and testosterone products.
We had a failed cycle. Will this make us feel like it was our fault?
No. IVF outcomes depend on many factors, and the guide never links a past result to anything you did. It separates the few changes worth making from the many restrictions that only cost you.
Does this replace my clinic’s advice?
No. It’s education, not medical advice. Protocols, medications, testing and any instruction your clinic gives you come first, for as long as they say.
What happens after I sign up?
You’ll get the guide by email from Dr Lejla, followed by a short series of practical emails. You can unsubscribe in one click. You’ll also see an optional free 7-day demo of the Pre-IVF Pocket Coach, with no card needed.
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You don’t have to give up everything.

This page and the guide are education, not medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, and not a substitute for the care of your physician or fertility clinic. Always talk to your own physician or fertility specialist before changing anything, and tell them about anything either of you is taking.

Dr. Lejla Fazlicic, D.Ac., L.Ac. · Doctor of Acupuncture · Licensed in Illinois since 2011, IDFPR #198000990

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A note on what this is. Cycle Decoded is provided by Dr. Lejla Fazlicic, D.Ac, L.Ac, a Doctor of Acupuncture and Licensed Acupuncturist in Illinois, as lifestyle and wellness guidance intended to work alongside the care you receive from your fertility clinic and physicians. It is not medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and it does not replace or change any medical protocol.

Individual results vary. Lifestyle changes may influence the biological environment in which eggs and sperm develop; they are not a guarantee of any fertility, IVF, or pregnancy outcome. Always consult your fertility specialist before making changes during a treatment cycle.

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